Kids at weddings? - what food do they eat at weddings
Why do so many people are shocked when their children are not invited to a wedding? Weddings cost an arm and a leg these days, and if a couple has money, by bringing children to save from the list (which is not likely to eat the food anyway), why feel offended? Not to mention, every wedding I went to be for children - children are like animals, because people assume that because his family is there, we keep our eyes on the children, why is it OK for someone in your wedding day, not to mention the other customers?
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
What Food Do They Eat At Weddings Kids At Weddings?
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Some people simply assume that their children are welcome. I for one do not. When my children are not explicitly mentioned in the invitation, I think not invited. Here is the reply card to identify warning signs, because if you invite a couple and have 2 children, then send the reply card RSVPing return for 4 people, who know that they are, including their children.
And honestly, it's not your problem if people choose to be offended about. It is their problem. You are the initiation of the wedding and reception, you pay for everything. If you do not want children there, then that's your call.
No offense, and frankly do not take toddler to a wedding anyway, even if you were invited. I also think that people let their kids run wild at the wedding. Fortunately, not my marriage, but I must confess that I am the people on the list because this fear. I went to a wedding where the mother thought it was funny that she was 4 years old eating the wedding cake with his mouth ... been before they are cut off. Again, I personally believe that marriage places for toddlers, but it's just me.
I'm with you on this!
Well, I know I will get some votes to this answer ... If you can not with children at a wedding, did not say, have their own children. And if you decide to have children for a rude awakening, because there is no perfect child, and it was for all children at some point and my question is how much of us stood motionless as statues of all time. To each his own, I think. However, we believe that many people I can now see their children run free and children are increasingly disrespecful adults, but it's not the fault of the parents and teaches them respect for their elders.
If you think his own wedding-add "Please confirm your participation in our adult and / or reception in his office, and I think 20% is usual.
My girlfriend and I are hiring a babysitter for the wedding and reception site so that people are their children's B-ring but can not on the road.
Of course you can have the kind of wedding you and your BF wants - that's how it goes. But its not bad, if not get some people, even family members, whether their children are welcome. You can do a different perspective of what it.
But I repeat, you do what you want for your wedding.
My husband and I were married in the first place because we loved and wanted to share our lives together. Children are welcome, is about our future, because what he loved (and you!). Our families are nuclear families, and all have children of all ages. We believe that marriage opportunities for the family - not just for adults. As you said, an adult case would go to a bar, for example.
A wedding is an exciting time to care for children around the solemnity of the occasion to visit and close all those who are filled with love for a spouse. And the reception is for everyone, the voice that was beginning to celebrate, and is a great social event and family of the childrenttend. Is, where do people who do not often see family members, friends to dance, learn, etc. All this is part of the growth in our culture.
Perhaps you have heard a different perspective to try, do not be angry.
Of course you can have the kind of wedding you and your BF wants - that's how it goes. But its not bad, if not get some people, even family members, whether their children are welcome. You can do a different perspective of what it.
But I repeat, you do what you want for your wedding.
My husband and I were married in the first place because we loved and wanted to share our lives together. Children are welcome, is about our future, because what he loved (and you!). Our families are nuclear families, and all have children of all ages. We believe that marriage opportunities for the family - not just for adults. As you said, an adult case would go to a bar, for example.
A wedding is an exciting time to care for children around the solemnity of the occasion to visit and close all those who are filled with love for a spouse. And the reception is for everyone, the voice that was beginning to celebrate, and is a great social event and family of the childrenttend. Is, where do people who do not often see family members, friends to dance, learn, etc. All this is part of the growth in our culture.
Perhaps you have heard a different perspective to try, do not be angry.
I agree, weddings and business meetings are no place for children. Plus too many people who your angels "little control"
It is very difficult. We took children, because most of our friends already had children. It was difficult for them if we are an adult only wedding. It is important that all parties understand all the big situations. If you have children, not only is not that a baby-sitter, it is not so simple. Our marriage was not as formal, and the kids have fun. The idea of a room that someone has said, with coloring books for children is an excellent idea.
prefer to get them to adjust to a nanny. But they must respect the favorite of the bride and groom. Sometimes, not only in their budget for kids.
I think it is acceptable for children on the invitation. Want to know that some people, because to visit.
Why everyone will assume that if you want to get married, have children? Many people decide to have children and would rather not be in your marriage. Others are not ready for kids and even embarrassed by them.
I come from a big family. For us, marriage is a family event and what a family without children? I suppose for people with small families or people who do not like children is large for a marriage without children. Weddings are the beginning of a family. What is the purpose of founding a family, if they want to be for children?
Here's a question, answer to your question ... My husband and I were invited to the wedding of my niece. It has made clear, it is only for adults. That's ok ... but my husband wants to go a toast to the bride, then of course we do. Our children are 8, 5 and 2 We will be traveling 15 hours to get to the wedding. All parents will be at the wedding. We are in a city where you know nobody ... we go to our children when they are not present for the wedding. Strange .... I think not. (Not to mention that our 5 years old, suffering from a disease that few people are willing to regularly try a kiss ... much less someone who unfortunately do not know. As I) should have said 15 hours Go Hotel Costs incurred, the costs for a shower and a wedding gift, etc. .. and all I ask is that our children can attend with me after lunch ... after my husband and I are going to split the night to see who the party and himself in his hotel room with the children. Is it really so unreasonableYou ask?
By the way, just to make a comment ... older people who drink too much at the wedding tend to behave like animals, like children do.
Official functions should be limited in adults or older children and adolescents. Small children are not really an official event.
We have a picnic, so we hope that children like animals!
HAHA! Glad to hear that someone like me!
1. They are too cheap to have a sister and no matter what it costs ...
2. May God forbid, are not separated from the demon girl for more than 2 minutes ... It's funny, because they do not see ..
3. They have little HP * something.
4. They are selfish and think only of themselves and their convenience.
5. You have to rent a variety of illicit drugs in the house to a nanny to ....
I swear to God, my sister, friend, step 5, because it is a Freaken big question that no one can see at home 5 hours on the children.
If I have "heard, not the child of the family" again .....
That's what I told my family, bring your children on the counter. Why do you want at a reception for adults, adults with music and drink, dance and go smoke. Do you think this is a good environment for a child? He shut most of them in my case. But I have two brothers, both children complain, because the Wedlock and is jealous / power issue.
First, it is an insult to the host. Would you like presents? Your home for your donation, but not their relatives. Are you out of your own family? Why not to allow a marriage, the children? He joined the family married. It also sounds like one of those women who ignore everything around you and others. Children are fun and bring joy. By the sound of him and the impression we need to receive from you, your wedding will be some.
a wedding is the beginning of a new family that families should attend the same note with your child to participate, you must behave and whether they can and can not be committed.
I do not know, but my sister-in-law put adult reception and some people brought their kids anyway, I go through the same thing, I will not insist on that day and I said, I do not want my child of the marriage. It is really frustrating.
My husband and I passed, and the issue of children in the marriage never came home. But now, after 29 years of marriage, that's how I feel:
I can understand the insistence of the people to be a picture perfect Hollywood marriage fairy tale. "The wedding theme? God is the theme of" marriage. Color coordination extends to those who would wear clothes and so on? So what if all the "coordinated" so as long he is happy and beautiful and if you do your laundry in a knot when the children "the Wedding spoil? much pain, too bad when things are not exactly as planned, or if a child decides to exercise their right to free exercise of Screech's vote? Life is not perfect, and if the hook I love most, nothing should be in the world the death of a person in a position to reason. It is the cry of the children "Let them run and laugh and joke and play. God, if my husband and to renew our vows the day, I askedMoon jump for children (and adults) play, and I call 'em on hijinx increase the general hilarity of the occasion. Marriage should be a joyous occasion and a special occasion? And what's more fun to recall that all adults to reduce over time and to participate in this festival? What's better than the children involved?
As for the food and the cost issue, nobody should pay more for a wedding than they can afford. I would rather have a barbecue in a park with hamburgers and hot dogs served, the people, because he could not afford to invite them to exclude loved when the restoration of the reception was too expensive.
If I were to marry again, I want my guests to smile and laugh when she recalls the event. I think the real joy is all that it should be maintained and you do not get the joy, obsessed with the little things in a marriage fairy tale. But I think I understand where a welcome you like, and may include children, and not worry if things are not exactly as planned.Children can have fun to, if you are not the things seriously.
I think it depends on the family because I've been to weddings where they were s kindergartens and child care, but the last time I went to a wedding, the children, but children do not disturb size of your big day
I understand your desire to have children at a wedding BT, everything you need to do is a little more planning security and may form part of a marriage that is sorely missed. Images of children at the wedding were among the best are not you and your man It's something about the innocence of a child who says so.
Here's what we do with respect for the wedding of our son.
"We talked with the vendors and uses a children's menu consists of meat, hamburgers and pizza. (And at a lower cost)
"We hired a nanny and has a room as the nursery, where they nominated games, movies, color, etc. can play
By doing these things in place, we do not spend more, (no children because there was undobtable made a few anyway), and we are truly a family affair.
I take a formal marriage, where unwanted children can be in this case, put "adult reception only" in the appeal and invite the children sCeremony E, then they can at least shares has the day with you somehow.
When we were married, with children included in our wedding and everything. During the night there were people who comment and revenge for the inclusion. We sent a table in a room and gave them chalk, coloring books, cards, etc., and they behave and stayed away from other guests. My brother and sister, the exclusion of children and my parents and my sister (the children) were wounded and bitter. My sister has now realized, that would have taken her nieces, after all they are family.
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